tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post64160695667622634..comments2023-04-22T15:31:36.047-04:00Comments on Hope Floats Among the Cherry Blossoms: Triggers, Not Just For IFJamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-18708070793723435112016-07-13T01:30:20.818-04:002016-07-13T01:30:20.818-04:00Thank you for the hugs! While it hurt, you are co...Thank you for the hugs! While it hurt, you are correct that I have improved in being more present and leaving the past in the past. And I acknowledged it briefly, then put it down so it did not ruin my evening.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-52879304187413845332016-07-10T09:34:18.190-04:002016-07-10T09:34:18.190-04:00I am sorry too, both that I missed this post befor...I am sorry too, both that I missed this post before and that you had an unwelcome blast from the past. It's not fun getting blindsided, but it can also remind you of how far you've come. (((hugs))) loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-81735262139732135992016-07-09T11:55:02.687-04:002016-07-09T11:55:02.687-04:00Thank you, Mali, for your thoughtful words. This ...Thank you, Mali, for your thoughtful words. This post was a tint bit back dated. I'm getting better about that poor blogging habit, but this one got away from me!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-24938249994264130742016-07-08T19:01:27.241-04:002016-07-08T19:01:27.241-04:00I'm so sorry I missed this when you posted it....I'm so sorry I missed this when you posted it. Triggers suck, but I am very happy that you have T to hold you and make you feel secure.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-35756969532121645642016-07-08T00:36:40.899-04:002016-07-08T00:36:40.899-04:00Thank you! T~ is a great husband. :)
Thank you ...Thank you! T~ is a great husband. :)<br /><br />Thank you for reading my post and understanding that the past can creep back every now and again, as much as I'd rather it stay in the past. It does get easier as life moves onward.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3405558996113640045.post-19944598175839700312016-07-06T19:33:06.905-04:002016-07-06T19:33:06.905-04:00I am so sorry that you experienced that trigger. I...I am so sorry that you experienced that trigger. I could feel what you felt through your description...and it wasn't a good feeling. I am so glad you have T in your life. To just hold you and not press you for what exactly it was that had you upset is amazing of him. It is hard, even when your marriage is wonderful and so much better in so many ways than what came before, to not be haunted by your first marriage. It's wonderful that he gets that. Fourteen years is a lot of history to gloss over, and there's a lot of pain in there. I'm so happy T is such a wonderful husband to you! Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.com